你有否曾經問過自己,我的快樂是什麼嗎?相信我們都有問過,而我的問題是,為什麼我不快樂?
很多年前,Dr. Deepak老師給我這條問題的回答是,因為你的土星跟木星有相位……之後我就從此踏上占星之路,他的答案只是一個誘因。木星是迫使我要尋找人生意義的最大動力,沒有意義,一切都不快樂。但這意義對我來說,又是很個人的事,可能你不會認同,所以,每個人對快樂的定義,都可以不一樣。
戲中Hector是一個需要規律生活的精神科醫生,有穩定的工作,有把他照顧得好好的女朋友,生命中所有的都是可預計得到。有一晚Hector跟女友參加公司的晚宴,有一位女士告訴Hector她很想要”Happiness”但把 Happiness讀成”Penis”,令Hector跟女友笑了一個晚上,也就因為此,給Hector走上他的旅程,去尋找什麼是快樂。
旅程中Hector有很多領略,以下是他在旅程所得到的答案,有興趣去了解當中的意思,就要看電影了。
- Making comparisons can spoil your happiness
- A lot of people think happiness is being rich or important.
- Many people see happiness only in their future.
- Happiness could be the freedom to love more than one woman at the same time.
- Sometimes happiness is not knowing the whole story.
- Avoiding unhappiness is not the road to happiness.
- Does the person you’re with bring you predominately A) up or B) down?
- Happiness is being loved for who you are.
- Happiness is answering your calling.
- Sweeting Potato Stew.
- Fear is an impediment to happiness.
- Happiness is feeling completely alive.
- Happiness is knowing how to celebrate.
- Listening is loving.
- Nostalgia is not what it used to be.
以上有幾多項對你來說,是快樂的定義?其實可能我們已經在快樂當中,只是有些阻礙令我們感受不到。
而最能夠說服我的就是本文章圖片中那句。